Feelings,
are one's thoughts towards another,
its not up to us to control wat we want our frens to think abt someone.
no matter how close our fren is to us.
if the person he/she likes is bad,
we can only advice and hope that she realise.
but we cannot force our fren.

if she thinks that she is
comfortable and happy wen she is with him,
let her be.
besides,
i dun see no harm of them being together.



Judgement,
is what u think of someone.
if u judge a person through rumours,
it is WRONG.
lemme give u an example,

There was this couple,
they were THE couple of the school.
and one day,
the girl heard her boy cheating on her.
she broke up with her boy.
a week ltr,
she got the news of the boy's death.
he's body was found by the river bank.
in his room,
there was a letter for her.
in that letter:

My dear,
i dont understand why u left me.
i didnt do anything but be loyal to u.
i love u with all my heart.
those rumours about me aint true.
the her they were talking about
is actually you.

you didnt find out everything
b4 u blame it on me,
now i'm on the other side
living my dream.

wen u get this letter,
i am long gone.
i've jumped down the river,
for u have left me alone.

i hope u wont judge by rumours anymore
my dear,
for they are not always true,
find it out urself , girl.

the girl cried.
she regretted.

so the moral of the story,
find out wats behind everything,
rather than listening to rumours.
dun judge ppl because others say so,
have u seen the real him?
or izit because the competition between him and him made u believe the him who told u everything?
try to accept others,
learn their character before rating them.

jing's happiness,
let her gain it herself.
if she thinks its right,
its right,
we only give her advice,
not break her heart,
she might look happy,
but inside,
she's hurting like no one else can,
she dont wanna lose her frens,
especially u guys.
especially in situations like this,
she really need u guys to listen to her,
support,
stand on her side.
instead of believeing in someone else's opinion just because he's the one telling u guys the story.
listen to both side of the story,
then u'll see the diff.

cheer up my dear jing,
things will go well=)